Monday, December 1, 2014

Fun Without the Cuckold

I'm looking forward to seeing Janice tonight.  The poor girl hasn't had a decent sized cock to play with since last Tuesday.   Abstinence like that makes her especially good in bed.  When it's more than a week she's even harder to control but somehow I manage. 

It's going to be fun because likewise, I haven't gotten any since last Tuesday either.  Two horny parties make for a good time.

Something's going to be missing though.  The cuckold's on a short business trip and should be back on Thursday.  The cuckolder is going to miss the little guy.

If this were just a normal run-of-the-mill extramarital affair, the two of us would be jumping up and down with glee that the husband is out of town.  "We have the whole week to ourselves!" she'd say.  I know because I've heard that before in my younger years.   But now that we're both hooked by the kinky appeal of cuckolding, tonight's probably going to be a little too vanilla four our tastes.

We'll just have to find a way to spice things up a little bit.  Here are a couple of ideas I've thought about this morning...

  • Have the cuckold call wifey at an appointed time and he can listen in to our lovemaking
  • Skype with him?
  • Text some kinky pictures of wifey enjoying herself
  • Let him hear the spanking I intend to administer on wifey
Perverse?  Maybe. But I can assure you Janice probably can and will top these suggestions.

She may want to ignore him altogether.  If so, I'll just have to struggle through it.  I'll do my best to provide her and myself with a bit of kink.

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Pre-Thanksgiving Stuffing

With family arriving at Janice's today, Tuesday evening was my last chance to enjoy her (and to a lesser extent the cuckold) until Sunday or Monday of next week. 

Their kids and other family will be around for a few days so it's going to be a full house.  No room or time for the cuckolder.  I can understand that.

So last night Janice seemed to really "want it."  And, the more she wants it, the nastier she gets with the cuckold.  I can't quite figure that out.  It would seem to me that if she wanted it that bad, she'd ignore the cuckold completely and focus solely on the sex between the two of us.  She doesn't do that until she's heaped a ton of abuse and humiliation on the poor cuckold.

When I got to their house and let myself in, Janice was just finishing up a phone call.  I didn't see the cuckold and thought he might be working late or something.  When I asked Janice, she just laughed and said he was tied up in the bedroom.  "He's trussed up like a turkey" was how she put it.

We wasted little time in getting to the bedroom and sure enough, the cuckold was kneeling at the side of the bed with his hands cuffed behind his back, wearing a bra and panties and a pair of Janice's panties placed over his head so that he was looking through the leg openings.  His ankles were also tied together.  Sometimes, like last night, I actually felt bad for the cuckold.  But as usual, I get over it.   We both stripped and climbed onto the bed.

I love to tease Janice with my cock, making her beg for it before I actually slide it into one of her holes.  I also tease the cuckold, making him beg me to fuck his wife.  I tease him more for Janice's pleasure than my own, but it's still fun. 

We were positioned on the bed so that the cuckold had an eye level view of my cock rubbing her pussy.  Sliding it back and forth was driving the both of them crazy.  She'd try to slide back onto it or grab it and shove it into her from behind.  I'd slap her ass firmly telling her she'd get it when I was ready. 

The cuckold, kneeling and cuffed, was unable to do anything about his obvious arousal.  He wasn't in chastity but his little thing was trying to escape from the panties he was wearing.  "I think he likes this more than you do" I told Janice.  "I'm sure he does" she said.  "Why don't undo his hands so he can at least have some fun?" I asked her.  I was surprised she agreed with me.  She went and got the key to the cuffs and let him loose.  "You can play with yourself and cum in the panties" she told him.

Janice got back into position and I continued my teasing.  The cuckold was wanking and to no one's surprise, came before I had even started to slide into Janice.  The poor guy had to watch us well after he had messed the panties. 

In the end, Janice got what she wanted and so did I.  The cuckold made out pretty good also.  He cleaned her to a second orgasm and got the opportunity to get me hard again for another round with Janice. 

When it was all over I'd say the cuckold was the big winner, even though Janice was the one who got stuffed.

Funny how these things works.

Happy Thanksgiving.

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Back in the Saddle

Thanks to the multitude of followers (three to be exact) who've been concerned about my whereabouts, well-being, sex life and my relationship with Janice and the cuckold.  You're emails have been greatly appreciated.

I'm doing quite well.  Better now that Janice has responded to some attitude adjustments in a positive way.  Being a "cuckolder" isn't always as easy as you think.  I know, "bull" is the correct term but not the one I prefer.

The best thing about it is that it doesn't have all the B.S. that often comes with being married.  Of course, the longer you do it with a couple, the more the wife acts like you are married.  So that's kind of what happened here.

I took a little vacation with some golf buddies.  We went to  Scotland to see the Ryder Cup at the end of September.  It wasn't fun to watch the US Team lose again, but the camaraderie with my golf partners and all the socializing with some new Scottish made the disappointment short-lived.

There are few greater pleasures in life (one of them though is hot sex with Janice while the cuckold watches) than drinking with a Scotsman.   Robin Willias was right!  So I stayed a few extra days.  The few extra days then turned into an extra two weeks as I went to visit friends in France before I returned to a very cold shoulder.

My return coincided with Janice and the cuckold's wedding anniversary.  They just so happened to be leaving on an 11 day vacation.  Several months ago I had agreed to spend a few of those days with them but had to change my plans in early September.  All of this put Janice in just a splendid mood.

To get to the point, we're as back to normal as can be right now.  I'm back in the saddle with Janiceand the cuckold seems to be enjoying the show, typically all trussed up ahead of time by wifey and dressed like a girly boy.

When all the dust settled we started our first play date with Janice over my lap.  Her spanking wasn't even half way done and she was begging for my cock.  "Sorry, not tonight" I had to tell her.  "You've been acting like a spoiled brat."  I kept her over my lap and had the cuckold lick her butt hole right in front of my before I finished the spanking. 

Instead of giving her what she wanted, I thought I'd just tease her with some digital stimulation.  Sheloves my fingers when they probe her in front of the cuckold.  He seems to enjoy it too.  The bump in his panties gives his feelings away and his inability to do anything about it makes for a nice little scene.

Janice's pussy just about gushes when she comes from my fingering her.  She must have screamed "Fuck me" a couple hundred times.  She even screamed for the cuckold to crawl over and lick her pussy.  It was fun to see him waddle on his knees since his hands were tied behind his back.  Once he got close, I didn't let him lick her.  Instead, I stuck my middle finger her ass and had him lick that. 
From what I could tell he thought it was delicious.

But at the end of the day, I'm the one who gave in.  And like most women, Janice ended up getting her way - from behind on all fours.

Sunday, September 14, 2014

Watching the Cuckold

Another week went by that left Janice without a real man to satisfy her needs while the cuckold was locked up and I was unavailable.  Poor thing.  She's beginning to think that I do these things on purpose so that I can convince her to accept controlled chastity just like the cuckold.  "If you can't get laid then why not be locked up" is my philosophy.  She hasn't been convinced of that just yet.

Of course being locked up like the cuckold would dramatically alter her sex life.  When I'm not around she entertains herself with a variety of toys, some of which attach to the cuckold in different ways and of course, the cuckold himself.  His mouth gets quite a workout.

Last Sunday's sex with Janice and the eventual inclusion of the cuckold was so enjoyable that we did it again this morning.  Some fluffing by the cuckold, torrid sex between Janice and I along withcoffee and croissants downtown while the cuckold cleaned the sheets is a nice way to spend a Sunday morning. 

When we got back the cuckold did as he was told and was ready for his reward; release from chastity and releasing a week's worth of pent up sexual frustration.  I had the honor of doing the unlocking.

Watching another man kneel before his wife and stroke himself to an unusually quick orgasm doesn't turn me on at all.  It's never been a fantasy of mine though I've seen it happen quite often.  The control I exert over them adds some spice to what's going on between me and their wives.  But I'm always amazed at how much the wives themselves enjoy it and how it excites them. 

This doesn't happen with every couple of course and it's usually the wives who suggest it.  Today, after the cuckold had pleasured himself Janice was ready for another round of sex.  That was fine with me. 

Sunday, September 7, 2014

Ignoring the Cuckold

With not having seen Janice for several days due to other commitments I had (one of which was a "social" date with a long time lady friend last night) I was eager and excited to see her this morning.  It wasn't first-thing-in-the-morning-wake-up type of sex.  Instead I had the opportunity to hit the gym and overdose on caffeine before stopping in to see her around 8:30.

I think the cuckold's been locked up since midweek so I was sure he was looking forward to some voyeuristic "action" at a minimum and maybe even a little participation.  Unfortunately for him, he got neither.

I know it's important to make an effort to understand and meet the needs of everyone involved in these cuckold relationships and I think I've done that.  But when I'm feeling the kind of arousal I was feeling today it was Janice I wanted, with no distractions. 

I phoned the cuckold and told him to let Janice know I wanted her waiting for me in their bedroom, naked and on all fours and that I'd be there in about 10 minutes.  That was it.

When I arrived the cuckold was dressed in a maids uniform and looking even more submissive than usual.  No doubt he was looking forward to a special cuckold morning.  I said good morning, made my way to the bedroom and locked the door.  Janice was perfectly placed on the bed, her body angled in such an inviting pose and with a pretty smile on her face.  How could I ever focus on anyone else. There wasn't any fluffing needed anyway.  I was quickly rigid and she was already slippery. 

The sex was as good as it gets.  I think both of our urges were in concert.  I wanted to take her so badly and she wanted it even more, or so it seemed.  We had long and satisfying sex.  I'd mostly forgotten about the cuckold until Janice asked me if I thought he was listening by the door. 

After refreshing ourselves we got dressed and decided to step out for a light brunch.  Janice told the cuckold to change the sheets in the bed and we'd be back in a couple of hours. 

I thought about how we'd treated the cuckold and wondered if it was a bit too harsh.  Of course Janice knows him far better than I do and told me I was unnecessarily concerned.  She offered the following explanation.  "Situations like this are good for him.  He's admitted as much even though he doesn't like them.  When we get home you can unlock him and I'll let him masturbate in front of us.  He'll be happy."

Janice is a smart woman.  We did just that and guess what?  We had a happy cuckold. 

Thursday, September 4, 2014

Advice to Wives

The advice I'm about to share with wives who are into cuckolding their husbands comes with a few assumptions. 

I assume the following:

  1. The wife is at least somewhat dominant over her husband
  2. The wife is having an affair
  3. The wife enjoys feminizing her husband at least to some degree
  4. The wife is having a hard time figuring out how to "break the ice" about cuckolding with her lover.
Here's my advice:  Buy yourself a pair of panties like these and wear them the next time you're with your lover.

At a minimum, these panties should get the cuckolding conversation going and headed in the right direction.

If they don't, here's my next piece of advice:  Find a new lover.  This one's a total dud. 

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Cuckolding & The Sign of The Horns

First a chastity update on the poor cuckold.  His initial time locked up wasn't very long.  In my last post I alluded to the fact that he'd have to carve out some time for me to have my way with his wife (Janice) over the weekend in order to be freed from his "torture."

Plans changed and since I was gone for a few days, I had my fun with Janice on Friday night.  It was yummy sex.  Probably yummier for the cuckold if you know what I mean.  So he got let out of the chastity cage and even got to masturbate in front of the two of us.  Is there a better cuckold treat?  Leave that as a hypothetical question.  No need to answer.

But Janice couldn't wait too long to lock him up again.  The family jewels have been locked since Sunday night with no relief planned as of yet. 

Let's move on to today's subject:  Putting the internationally accepted "cuckold symbol" to effective use.

Don't forget to move your hand back and forth!
Most cuckold couples are probably familiar with "The sign of the horns."  The sign is formed by holding the middle and ring fingers down with the thumb while extending the index and little fingers.  Years ago in some cultures when you directed the sign towards someone and moved your hand back and forth it was meant to imply cuckoldry.  In other words, you'd use it to humiliate the person it was directed to and identify him as a cuckold. 

If the cuckold you're dealing with today isn't familiar with the symbol, I'd be surprised.  I'd also make sure he learns about it before you put it to use.  A little wave of the hand by the bull or cuckolder with your hand set this way can help set the tone in either public or private settings.

Once the cuckold is familiar with the symbol you can put it to use in various ways.  It can have a variety of meanings and serve as a prompt for him to do something cuckold-related.  Use your own imagination.

The next step is to indoctrinate and familiarize the wife with other pleasures of the cuckold symbol.  First, comfortably position her on all fours with her ass facing the cuckold.  He should be kneeling behind her, with his hands bound or unbound (I prefer bound) close enough to get a nice view of what's about to take place but not so close as to interfere with it either.

Next, use your favorite high quality lubricant to lube the wife's bottom. "Over-lubing" is never a bad idea.  Using your left hand, spread her cheeks as best you can so the cuckold gets a good look.   Carefully insert your middle and ring fingers into the wife's ass; the deeper the better.  Once they're in deep, position your baby finger on one ass cheek and the index finger on the other.  Instead of your thumb holding down the middle two fingers, it's her lovely ass that does it for you.

Voila!  Is there a better way to let the cuckold see the symbol?  Unlikely.  

Give the wife a good going-over, paying close attention to her sexual arousal and how she responds to your verbal stimulation.  And don't forget to move your hand back and forth either.   Let her feel the cuckold symbol at work.  At the right time, start a little clitoral stimulation and the orgasm should soon follow.

Once she's fully satisfied, I like to make the cuckold clean the lube off my fingers before he does the same to his wife's ass. 

It's a nice little game to play once and a while and a nice reminder of everyone's role.

Thursday, August 28, 2014

The Cuckold's in Chastity

When I last left you, I was wondering how the hell I'd forgotten to put the butt plug to use;  The one I'd instructed the cuckold to have waiting for me when I got to his and Janice's house.  I'd intended to tease the both of them by slowly sliding it into her ass before I led her into the bedroom, leaving both of them to wonder whether or not I was going to take her anally on Monday night.  As it turned out we didn't have anal sex but enjoyed ourselves just the same.

If you recall, the cuckold was left there in his maids uniform and also in chastity.  I'd forgotten about  him being locked up when I left and even though I spoke to Janice several times since then (trying to plan for the weekend if it's possible) the topic never came up.  I assumed she had set the cuckold free and let him have some sort of relief in a way I've already approved.  Face sitting is her favorite by the way.

I was wrong.  Last night Janice sent me a text with this cute little selfie showing the chastity belt's key dangling from her neck.  "Guess what?  The cuckold's still locked" she wrote.  I was on the phone with my son (a lifetime student - just another routine request for funds) at the  time and sent her a quick note expressing my doubts about her claim.  It had been at least 48 hours since the cuckold was locked up.  This would be a new record for him. 

Janice wrote back that it was true and that she told the cuckold it would be up to me when he would be let out again.  When my phone call was over, I wrote back to her that I'd think about it and let her know how to proceed in due time.  I also told her to call me in the morning.

Now Janice is aware of my former cuckolding activities, both the mild and not-so-mild relationships.  She says it's part of her attraction to me, having a lover who understands the whole thing.  So she knows that I've held the keys and controlled the sex lives of cuckolds before. 

Janice called me this morning.  It was a fun conversation.  I'm all too willing to go along with her suggestion as long as things don't get out of hand.  Think what you may I do have some sympathy for the cuckold, probably more than Janice. 

We left it that I'd allow the cuckold out of his chastity belt only after the next time I fucked her.  If he wants out, he better carve out some time for me to have my way with his wife this weekend. 

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Instructions to the Cuckold

I was finally able to see Janice last night.  Little bit of a dry spell but not that unusual.  The wives and cuckolds have their own separate lives to lead as do I.  Coordination is difficult sometimes, no matter how horny Janice gets.  But over the weekend, we talked and discovered that the stars would be in alignment for a Monday night date.

For Janice and the cuckold, the foreplay starts as soon as we've set a time and place to meet.  Doesn't matter if that happens a half hour or a week ahead of time.  They both enjoy the games I like to play with the both of them leading up to my arrival.

I was off yesterday and played in one of those four man scramble charity golf tournaments with a "shotgun start."  If you golf you know what I'm talking about.  Those things take a regular four hour round and turn it into a six hour drag-it-out marathon.  Add on some drinks, lunch, a raffle and prizes and your day is shot.  Granted it was for a good cause but I was in a hurry to get laid.  Good thing I was able to text the cuckold my instructions for evening while waiting after every shot.

The back and forth with the cuckold (and Janice) prompted my golfing partners to ask what the hell I was doing and if I had "a hot date tonight."  I told them I did and asked if they were jealous.

I think Janice enjoys these type of mind games more than the cuckold does.  She likes it when I give her some things to do and exercise my authority, but I think she loves it when I do the same to the cuckold.

I sent the cuckold a text message yesterday afternoon that was short and sweet.  Knowing the two of them for more than two years lets me send these abbreviated messages with the knowledge that they'll know what I'm talking about.

Be there at 6.  You full uniform and locked.  J in heels hose collar w/leash and bp on the side.
 The cuckold:
Yes Marc
Send proof when locked and in panties.

 Chastity for the cuckold has been an off and on thing with Janice.  Mostly off for the cuckold.  Recently she's expressed an interest in keeping him locked up more or coming up with a schedule that I would regulate.  I thought this exchange would make her happy and maybe even a bit hornier.

Almost two hours later after the cuckold got home from work and showered he locked himself in and sent me this picture from his phone.  Not the greatest but it does show the outline of the CB through his panties.  Obedience turns me on.

When I arrived the cuckold was in his maids uniform, Janice in heels, hose and a collar with a leash and butt plug on their coffee table in the living room.  I forgot to ask them who put the leash on Janice, whether she did it herself or if the cuckold did it.  I doubt if Janice let him do it but I'll have to find out.

I had Janice make her way to their sofa so that her ass was facing the middle of the room.  On the other side of the sofa was a table which I told the cuckold to move so I could stand directly behind the table facing Janice.  "Get me a crop" I told the cuckold.  He went to their bedroom and returned it to me.  By the time he got back, I'd already taken my cock out of my pants and Janice was busy sucking on it.

I spanked Janice and played with the crop for fifteen minutes or so while the cuckold licked her ass.  My swats would sometimes hit the top of his head even though I did my best not to.  They would knock over the little maids cap he was wearing and he'd pick it up and put it back on only to have it swatted off again.  It was fun watching him go through these motions but once Janice got me close to cumming, I lost all interest in what the cuckold was doing.  

I stopped short of cumming and told the cuckold to hand me the leash.  I snapped it onto her collar and made Janice crawl while following me to their bedroom.  I didn't rush her, leading down the hall so that both the cuckold and I could appreciate her nice ass.  Without saying a word, we left the cuckold there.

I spent about two hours alone with Janice and it was great sex.  Around 8:30 she asked if I wanted to stick around for something to eat and I told her I thought I'd be heading home since I had to work today.  I left the bedroom, said goodbye to the cuckold and gave Janice a goodnight kiss.

I got home and popped a frozen pizza from Trader Joe's into the oven and made myself a vodka tonic.  I suddenly realized that I'd forgotten to use the butt plug I had the cuckold leave out for me.  I hate it when I rush through things, especially sex.

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Female Orgasms And Cuckolds

A few days ago I mentioned that the biggest complaint wives of cuckolds had about their husbands was their inability to last.  I mentioned that a woman had a better chance of achieving a vaginal orgasm the longer the sex lasted.

This was based on a combination of experience and some knowledge of human anatomy and physiology and not on any sexual scientific research or data collecting exercise.  But a reader of the blog sent me a link to an article that supports my own findings.

Here's an article from Women's Health called 4 Types of Orgasms Every Woman Should Have.  I'd never heard of a "Blended Orgasm" and will have to ask Janice about them.  She's a bit wilder at some times more than others, so maybe that's what she's been experiencing.  If not, then I've got some work to do.

Where do cuckolds come in?  Let's give them credit where it's due.  Most are quite skilled at providing oral sex and helping their wives achieve clitoral and even multiple orgasms.  The wives love those just as much in my opinion.  Like the picture here, their facial expressions show it.

And one more thing.  The wives I enjoy playing with love their cuckolds even more. 

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Penis Size Envy

Sigmund Freud coined the term "penis envy" about a century ago, referring to a stage in a young woman's psychosexual development.  He used it to refer to the anxiety they supposedly experience when they realize they don't have a penis.  Professionally, I've never been a big fan of Freud but give credit where it's due; he certainly penned some interesting stuff.  You can always liven up some cocktail parties when you bring up his name. 

Cuckold porn seems to have a fascination with two things:  First, the size of the bull's penis and second, the size of the cuckold's penis.  Seems like all the bulls are hung like horses and all the cuckolds have clitoris sized members peeking out of their crotches.  These size discrepancies help make the tales far easier to write, not to mention the excitement they generate among readers. 

Let me try and size up the situations I've encountered in my own real life experience with couples I've played with.

I'll start by saying that my own penis is above average in size, both length and girth.  It's not of gargantuan proportions, but it's above average and with only one exception, larger than any of the cuckolds I've run into.  I don't make it a point to measure every cuckold's penis, but you'd be surprised to learn that the wives never fail to bring up their husband's penis size in comparison to mine.  The size comparisons naturally follow. 

Here's a fact:  Not all cuckolds have microscopic sized penises.  Sorry to disappoint.  Their wives' biggest complaints?  They don't last (premature ejaculation I guess) or "they don't know how to use it."  The latter comment/complaint usually means the wives can't achieve a vaginal orgasm when their husbands fuck them.  A woman has a better chance of having a vaginal orgasm the longer the sex lasts.  So if the husbands (cuckolds) can't last...well, there you have it.  Also, the ability to last has nothing to do with penis size.

Another thing, despite the notion that "size doesn't matter" that's been pretty popular in modern sexual circles, my own experience is that it does.  Why else would the wives' I've played with comment on it?  Like I said, my own is large, but not of biblical proportions.  But when compared to the cuckolds', there's at least a "sizable" difference.

Invariably though, with every cuckold couple I've been involved with that has an element of D/s in it where the wife is dominant over the cuckold, cock size comparisons always come up.  Not just in discussion but in actually putting the penises side by side.  It's a nice way for the wives, and for me in some cases, to heap an extra helping of humiliation on the cuckold. 

Janice had been a bit dominant over her husband before she was involved with me.  Before we met, the soon-to-be-cuckold was already being kept in panties.  So, on the night that Janice told him to pull down his pants, lower his lace panties and show me his cock while we were enjoying cocktails the cuckold had prepared for us, I knew I wouldn't be soon staring at "The Whopper."  The cuckold was small, but not tiny.  And amazingly, his penis grew as soon as Janice took it in her hand, held it, looked at me and said "See, I told you it was tiny."  She called it tiny, and I later told her I'd seen some smaller. 

Like other wives, Janice had me go through the drill.  I pulled down my pants, lowered my jockeys and showed the cuckold my penis.  Of course, my superior size was also the beneficiary of some previous attention Janice had paid it.  With both penises on full display Janice looked at the cuckold and said "See, I told you it was big" and wrapped her lips around it.  Both our penises got bigger at the sight of her sucking my cock.  There I stood, inches away from the cuckold while Janice sucked me.  As she sucked, I told him he could pull his panties back up and refresh our drinks.  It was a great way to start our play for the evening.

Let me wrap up.....I know not all cuckolds have smaller cocks than their wives' lovers, but I think most do. 

I'm no Sigmund Freud, but I think that those cuckolds with smaller sized penises suffer from a similar envy as the young girls Freud was referring to. This "penis size envy" experience comes about when the cuckold comes to the realization he doesn't have a penis of adequate size and stamina to please his wife. 

It's a defining moment in the cuckold's psychosexual development.

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Permissible Forms of Cuckold Sex

When taking control over a cuckold couple's sex life, one has to approach it with a level of reasonableness so that everyone's most basic needs are satisfied.  Even though I expect "fidelity" from the wives I have a relationship with, it would cruel if I didn't allow them to have sex when I'm away or not available.

The same can be said about the cuckold.  Whether they're locked up or not, cuckolds need some type of sex to keep them sane and motivated.  The sex doesn't always have to end in an orgasm (in fact, most of the time it shouldn't) as long as it satisfies their deep emotional need to please their wives.

I've learned over the years that it's important for the wives to have orgasms from the type of cuckold sex I allow them.  Not so much for their own satisfaction, but the cuckold needs to know that he's still able to please his wife in such a way that she gets off.  It helps the cuckolds self esteem.

Here's one of the forms of cuckold sex I let my couples enjoy:

The wives love the head harness and the results it provides.  The cuckolds love the attention.

I even supply the harness and the dildo of the wife's choice.  That way, I don't feel totally left out. 

Monday, August 18, 2014

Blog Fodder

Janice and the cuckold were away this weekend, leaving me to find other ways to enjoy and occupy myself.  The weekend abstinence from carnal pursuits wasn't something I was planning on writing about.  However, in some way it answers a question one of my followers asked in a comment to my last post. 

Mick, who writes the Under Contract to My Wife blog, asked if I followed the same fidelity rule that I insist upon with the married women I play with.  I had written that I wasn't interested in playing with a married woman who's going to fuck around with other guys.  Does the same rule apply to me?  Should she expect me to be "faithful" to her and not fuck around with other women?

The answer to both those questions is yes, wasn't always that way.  Maturity and a growing sense of responsibility caused me to change my ways.  Years ago there were a few times when I had a regular cuckolding thing going with a couple, but would have regular straight sex with other women as well.  For one thing, the regular straight sex was never nearly as fulfilling as the sex I had with the cuckolding wife.  Not even close. 

Also, by not screwing around with other women I could focus on the cuckold couple and make the arrangement more fun for the three of us.  Remember, this is supposed to be fun...for everyone...even the cuckold!

I know it's hard to believe that someone can have fun while locked in chastity, blindfolded, gagged with his wife's wet panties at the same time some guy's pounding her and making her beg for more but it happens.  More often than you think.  Thank God for guys like me that other guys have different needs.  I'm sure the cuckolds are equally thankful that there are people like me around.  And the wives?  They're doubly thankful don't you think?

By the way, Janice's husband does have a name but she enjoys referring to him as "the cuckold" and likes it when I do the same.  I used to slip once and awhile but that rarely happens now.   He seems to enjoy being referred to in this way and I'm happy to oblige.  It's kind of fun.  

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Walking Away

This might sound pretty strange coming from a guy who enjoys messing around with married women; specifically women who "cheat" on their husbands, but....

When I get into a relationship or start having an "affair" with a married woman I insist on fidelity.  If she's going to fuck around with others (besides her husband and me) then I'm not interested.  As soon as I get an inclination that she's messing around with other guys, it's time to walk away.  I'm sure other guys feel differently, but not me.  Perhaps it's my dominant nature, but I'm not into messing around with the so-called "hot wives." 

Depending on the couple and what they're into (as kinky as it can be, this is supposed to be fun) I also enjoy controlling their sex lives, limiting the kind of sex they can have with each other, like no fucking, or having them ask permission each time before having sex.  I've also been a keyholder for their cuckold husbands.  It's all pretty cool.  I've yet to find a couple that I can both keep in chastity but it's on my bucket list!

I had a gorgeous blonde named Debbie who was married to a guy twenty years her senior.  He was a true cuck, a few years older than me and surrendered his manhood to the both of us.  I held his key for a few months and Debbie loved every minute of it.  I found out she had seen another guy while I was gone for a week.  I called her, told her it was over and mailed her back the key.  

Yes I'm controlling but many couples like it that way.  So, if a woman wants to fuck other guys besides me, more power to her.  I'm just not going to be one of them.

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Cuckold Couple Discipline

This certainly doesn't fall in the "This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you" category, but disciplining a cuckold couple isn't always fun.  Sometimes it's just necessary.

And here's the thing, if you let them know up front that both of them are going to be disciplined no matter who screws up, who's fault it is, etc....the behavioral results are amazing. 

Just to clarify though, it's fun most all of the time :)

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Strutting Her Stuff

I mentioned what I perceived to be Janice's exhibitionist fantasies the other day.  Here's another example. 

Not all our sex is long, drawn out and inclusive of the cuckold.  Sometimes it's a little quick BJ or a little more and just the two of us.  These are the times she likes it when I take a quick picture and send it off to the cuckold.  Now, she wants me to take a video on my iPhone to send to him.  WTF?

I love the sex and enjoy the head games we play with the cuckold, but I wasn't planning on needing any audio visual skills when I entered into this arrangement.   I'd rather be focused on the sex rather than framing her lips sucking on my dick correctly.  And I like both hands free, just in case she needs a little encouragement or guidance. 

It might be fun once and awhile but I'm not going to let her make it a habit.  It's more fun when the cuckold takes the pictures in my opinion. 

Monday, August 11, 2014

Including the Cuckold

It was Janice's idea actually.  Give credit where it's due.  I always thought I was pretty creative when it came to spicing up a scene when it comes to giving the cuckold some humiliating task to perform. 

I actually think Janice has this exhibitionist streak in her.  I know she likes to have her cuckold husband watch us while we're having sex, but deep down I think she'd like to have others in the room while she performs.  It's just a hunch I have.

Anyway, she suggested that we have her cuckold stand on the side of the bed while we screw around and that I take her panties off and hang them on his cock until we were done. 

"I'll wear a g-string since he's not very big" she whispered to me into the phone.  That's my Janice.  I like her sense of humor.

"Are you sure it won't fall off?" I said.

"No way.  You know how hard he gets watching us" she said to me.  Good point.

So the cuckold was already hard and we had just started the foreplay.  I put Janice on all fours and slapped her ass a bit before I started to play with her pussy from behind, making sure I got the panties nice and wet.  As Janice moaned with pleasure, I slapped her ass again and looked at the cuckold and asked "She really loves this doesn't she?"  He knows I expect an answer and said "Yes Sir, she does."

Once the panties were properly dampened, I told her to take them off and give them to me.  I took them and rubbed them between her pussy lips just to get one last does of her juices onto the skimpy little things.

"Kiss 'em" I said as I put the panty in front of the cuckolds lip's.  He did.  Then I hung them on his cock and said "Hold her panties until we're done."

Janice laughed and said "You better fucking not let them fall!"

And there they stayed, throughout our entire lovemaking and until Janice was ready to let the cuckold play with himself.  He squirted into the panty as best he could and cleaned them out before he cleaned her out. 

There's always ways you can include a cuckold if you try hard enough. 

Sunday, August 10, 2014

Cuckold Photo Ops

I'm sure it's size is the same, but when I make a cuckold take a picture of me fucking his wife my cock feels thicker and longer.  It energizes me as a sexual being and makes me want to take her even harder.

Depending on the wife, the reaction can vary.  Most love it when I have their hubbies do my bidding and boss them around.  Others like the exhibitionist factor of being photographed.  None of them ever complain.

Saturday, August 9, 2014

Messaging the Cuckold

I've become quite good at taking pictures like this and sending them to the cuckold. 

It's not quite as much fun as humiliating the cuckold in person, but it can come close.

My friend Janice insists that the cuckold always respond immediately to my messages and thank me for pleasing his wife.  I love that.

Thursday, August 7, 2014

Humiliating the Wife and Cuckold

I like to enjoy a cuckolding scene.   I want to make it last.  Don't rush things.

You know, most all of the married women I've played with have the same complaint:  their cuckold husbands can't last.  First of all, the cuckolds are terrible at foreplay and then, once they enter their wives they cum in no time.  The selfish little pricks have no self-control.

Fortunately for the wives, I do.

I take charge and put the wives through their paces before I fuck them.  And I make the cuckolds watch when I'm doing this.  You'd be surprised how wet the wives get from the treatment I'm putting them through.

Here's something else, the longer I do it the wetter they get.  They beg me to rip their panties off and fuck them.  That only makes me keep their panties on longer.

Now here's a fun little game I like to play.  I like to fondle and finger their pussies through their panties and feel the panties get soaked.  I do this in plain view of the cuckold, with his wife's ass almost in front of his face.

Then I make the cuckold beg me to suck on my fingers.  Surprising how turned on they get by this little exercise.

Makes me hard too. 

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Sissy Cuckolds - My Favorite

I love fucking married women.  Not all types though.

And by "types" I don't mean body types.  I mean the kind who aren't sexually satisfied at home.  Whether they're not getting enough emotional attention or sexual attention.

I love the fact that when I fuck them, I automatically turn their husbands into cuckolds. It gives me a rush.  A big one.

What's better than that?  Humiliating the husband in person.  Making him an active but submissive participant in the fun I'm having with his wife.

I love getting nasty with them but keeping it all in fun.  It's fun alright, but I do make it clear to them who's in charge.

Chastised sissy cuckolds are my absolute favorite.   They put up little if any resistance.

sissy baby