Sunday, September 14, 2014

Watching the Cuckold

Another week went by that left Janice without a real man to satisfy her needs while the cuckold was locked up and I was unavailable.  Poor thing.  She's beginning to think that I do these things on purpose so that I can convince her to accept controlled chastity just like the cuckold.  "If you can't get laid then why not be locked up" is my philosophy.  She hasn't been convinced of that just yet.

Of course being locked up like the cuckold would dramatically alter her sex life.  When I'm not around she entertains herself with a variety of toys, some of which attach to the cuckold in different ways and of course, the cuckold himself.  His mouth gets quite a workout.

Last Sunday's sex with Janice and the eventual inclusion of the cuckold was so enjoyable that we did it again this morning.  Some fluffing by the cuckold, torrid sex between Janice and I along withcoffee and croissants downtown while the cuckold cleaned the sheets is a nice way to spend a Sunday morning. 

When we got back the cuckold did as he was told and was ready for his reward; release from chastity and releasing a week's worth of pent up sexual frustration.  I had the honor of doing the unlocking.

Watching another man kneel before his wife and stroke himself to an unusually quick orgasm doesn't turn me on at all.  It's never been a fantasy of mine though I've seen it happen quite often.  The control I exert over them adds some spice to what's going on between me and their wives.  But I'm always amazed at how much the wives themselves enjoy it and how it excites them. 

This doesn't happen with every couple of course and it's usually the wives who suggest it.  Today, after the cuckold had pleasured himself Janice was ready for another round of sex.  That was fine with me. 

Sunday, September 7, 2014

Ignoring the Cuckold

With not having seen Janice for several days due to other commitments I had (one of which was a "social" date with a long time lady friend last night) I was eager and excited to see her this morning.  It wasn't first-thing-in-the-morning-wake-up type of sex.  Instead I had the opportunity to hit the gym and overdose on caffeine before stopping in to see her around 8:30.

I think the cuckold's been locked up since midweek so I was sure he was looking forward to some voyeuristic "action" at a minimum and maybe even a little participation.  Unfortunately for him, he got neither.

I know it's important to make an effort to understand and meet the needs of everyone involved in these cuckold relationships and I think I've done that.  But when I'm feeling the kind of arousal I was feeling today it was Janice I wanted, with no distractions. 

I phoned the cuckold and told him to let Janice know I wanted her waiting for me in their bedroom, naked and on all fours and that I'd be there in about 10 minutes.  That was it.

When I arrived the cuckold was dressed in a maids uniform and looking even more submissive than usual.  No doubt he was looking forward to a special cuckold morning.  I said good morning, made my way to the bedroom and locked the door.  Janice was perfectly placed on the bed, her body angled in such an inviting pose and with a pretty smile on her face.  How could I ever focus on anyone else. There wasn't any fluffing needed anyway.  I was quickly rigid and she was already slippery. 

The sex was as good as it gets.  I think both of our urges were in concert.  I wanted to take her so badly and she wanted it even more, or so it seemed.  We had long and satisfying sex.  I'd mostly forgotten about the cuckold until Janice asked me if I thought he was listening by the door. 

After refreshing ourselves we got dressed and decided to step out for a light brunch.  Janice told the cuckold to change the sheets in the bed and we'd be back in a couple of hours. 

I thought about how we'd treated the cuckold and wondered if it was a bit too harsh.  Of course Janice knows him far better than I do and told me I was unnecessarily concerned.  She offered the following explanation.  "Situations like this are good for him.  He's admitted as much even though he doesn't like them.  When we get home you can unlock him and I'll let him masturbate in front of us.  He'll be happy."

Janice is a smart woman.  We did just that and guess what?  We had a happy cuckold. 

Thursday, September 4, 2014

Advice to Wives

The advice I'm about to share with wives who are into cuckolding their husbands comes with a few assumptions. 

I assume the following:

  1. The wife is at least somewhat dominant over her husband
  2. The wife is having an affair
  3. The wife enjoys feminizing her husband at least to some degree
  4. The wife is having a hard time figuring out how to "break the ice" about cuckolding with her lover.
Here's my advice:  Buy yourself a pair of panties like these and wear them the next time you're with your lover.


At a minimum, these panties should get the cuckolding conversation going and headed in the right direction.

If they don't, here's my next piece of advice:  Find a new lover.  This one's a total dud. 

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Cuckolding & The Sign of The Horns

First a chastity update on the poor cuckold.  His initial time locked up wasn't very long.  In my last post I alluded to the fact that he'd have to carve out some time for me to have my way with his wife (Janice) over the weekend in order to be freed from his "torture."

Plans changed and since I was gone for a few days, I had my fun with Janice on Friday night.  It was yummy sex.  Probably yummier for the cuckold if you know what I mean.  So he got let out of the chastity cage and even got to masturbate in front of the two of us.  Is there a better cuckold treat?  Leave that as a hypothetical question.  No need to answer.

But Janice couldn't wait too long to lock him up again.  The family jewels have been locked since Sunday night with no relief planned as of yet. 

Let's move on to today's subject:  Putting the internationally accepted "cuckold symbol" to effective use.

Don't forget to move your hand back and forth!
Most cuckold couples are probably familiar with "The sign of the horns."  The sign is formed by holding the middle and ring fingers down with the thumb while extending the index and little fingers.  Years ago in some cultures when you directed the sign towards someone and moved your hand back and forth it was meant to imply cuckoldry.  In other words, you'd use it to humiliate the person it was directed to and identify him as a cuckold. 

If the cuckold you're dealing with today isn't familiar with the symbol, I'd be surprised.  I'd also make sure he learns about it before you put it to use.  A little wave of the hand by the bull or cuckolder with your hand set this way can help set the tone in either public or private settings.

Once the cuckold is familiar with the symbol you can put it to use in various ways.  It can have a variety of meanings and serve as a prompt for him to do something cuckold-related.  Use your own imagination.

The next step is to indoctrinate and familiarize the wife with other pleasures of the cuckold symbol.  First, comfortably position her on all fours with her ass facing the cuckold.  He should be kneeling behind her, with his hands bound or unbound (I prefer bound) close enough to get a nice view of what's about to take place but not so close as to interfere with it either.

Next, use your favorite high quality lubricant to lube the wife's bottom. "Over-lubing" is never a bad idea.  Using your left hand, spread her cheeks as best you can so the cuckold gets a good look.   Carefully insert your middle and ring fingers into the wife's ass; the deeper the better.  Once they're in deep, position your baby finger on one ass cheek and the index finger on the other.  Instead of your thumb holding down the middle two fingers, it's her lovely ass that does it for you.

Voila!  Is there a better way to let the cuckold see the symbol?  Unlikely.  

Give the wife a good going-over, paying close attention to her sexual arousal and how she responds to your verbal stimulation.  And don't forget to move your hand back and forth either.   Let her feel the cuckold symbol at work.  At the right time, start a little clitoral stimulation and the orgasm should soon follow.

Once she's fully satisfied, I like to make the cuckold clean the lube off my fingers before he does the same to his wife's ass. 

It's a nice little game to play once and a while and a nice reminder of everyone's role.